To Look Young Again

You’re not as young as you used to be, and your outward appearance is definitely changing. There are ways, however, to keep you looking and feeling youthful!

For starters, keep your style neat. That mop-top from your younger days may not work anymore. If you’re going bald, you have options. You can spend the cash in hopes of restoring your hair, trim it super short, or shave your head clean. A ponytail, especially if you’re balding, will make you look older, not hipper. If you want to cover your grays, choose a color close to your natural shade that way it doesn’t look like you got some crazy dye-job.

Nothing says “old man” like crazy eyebrows, ear hair, and a bushy back. Have your barber tame your brows, ears, and nose hair. You can also do it yourself with at-home trimmers. Keep your back and chest fur from peeking out of the top of your shirt by shaving, waxing, using a hair removal cream, or through laser treatments.

Most of the time, a closely shaved man looks younger than a guy with a beard and mustache. That said, there are no rules, just keep it well groomed. If you decide it’s time to cover your gray, use a dye that’s meant for men’s facial hair. A solid beard tone will look fake, keep the fade going so it doesn’t look like you just spray-painted your face.

To keep your skin from adding years to your looks, wear sunscreen, moisturizer, and lip balm daily. Retinoid can help you slough off old skin cells. You can find them in many over-the-counter products or get a stronger version by prescription from a dermatologist. They also stop collagen, the stuff that keeps your skin stretchy, from breaking down. This gives you a more vibrant, youthful look.

If you want to look good on the outside, you got to take care of the inside. You can’t act like you did in your 20s. You know the rules: Get plenty of rest, eat right, drink water, don’t smoke, leave the booze at the bar, and try to get some exercise most days. It can be a bit of an adjustment, but once you get on a solid routine it will be easy to keep this up.

A bright smile can make you look, and feel, like a million bucks. Guys who brush and floss regularly can up the wattage with whitening toothpaste. At-home bleaching strips or trays also work. You can also go to the dentist for a treatment. For a big change, if your choppers are stained, damaged, or crooked, ask about veneers. These porcelain shells cover the front side of your teeth.

Stock your closet with a few quality pieces like a good suit, a leather jacket, and dark-wash classic-fit jeans. Add some trendy items each season, but don’t hang onto them after everyone else has moved on. If you can afford it, have your clothes tailored for perfect fit, tailored clothing can really make a person look younger. Accessories are OK, but don’t overdo it with the bling.


Time for a Little More Grooming!

Take care of everything from the previous post? Good, now you can do some more!

Have you ever been talking to someone, and swear you could braid their nose hairs? So gross, and so easy to avoid! It’s literally thirty seconds with a trimmer to remove this incredibly unsightly element from your face. Dudes, please remember: the taller you are, the more people are looking up your nose instead of at it. That means tall guys especially need to be vigilant about their nose hairs. Trim them back so no one’s staring at those weird, scraggly hairs when they should be admiring your face. Trim the nose hairs. Just do it.

Now what about those ear hairs? Same theory as nose hairs, although it’s now the side-on view you’re worried about rather than the straight-up view. Once again, we’re talking less than a minute to trim, every few days or weeks depending on your hair growth. Well worth the time. The general rule of thumb for both nose and ear hairs is straightforward: the ends shouldn’t be visible. Trim them back until they’re not. That means trimming the hairs off inside the rim of the relevant opening, but you don’t have to go any deeper than that. When it comes to ears especially, you don’t want to; just trim the tips and call it a day.

If you like to zone out with a newspaper while your barber does his thing, you may not have noticed the work he does along the back of your neck. Most haircuts involve neatening up the nape, which is the bottom outline where your haircut ends, usually on the back of the neck. Guys with hairy backs will want to make sure their hairs aren’t creeping up to join the nape, or worse yet to be visible above the collar but below a naked, shaven strip of skin. Case in point, I always make sure my barber takes care of my nape.

However, any man can shave his neck at home with trimmers – the advantage here is you can work this 30-second job into your schedule and have the convenience of not having to travel across town for a touch-up before a special event. That keeps growth even and prevents the nasty “my back hairs and my haircut are engaged in trench warfare” divide along the back of the neck. Shaven smooth back there is the best way to go, from the point where your haircut ends all the way under your shirt collars.

Men with side parts, take heed: your hair is not supposed to be curling around and sticking itself into your ears. If your hair is at the length where it starts invading your ears, use a little product to either slick it back or help it curve around the ears in a nice, natural-looking arch. Ideally, your whole ear should be visible on both sides, but if you want to hide some of it, do it with hairs that end behind or beneath the ear, not in or on it. If product isn’t doing the trick, it’s time to trim it up. The good news is that you don’t’ have to wait for your next barber visit to keep your hair looking clean or sharp. When the hair starts to go over your ears, it’s a warning sign to pull out a clipper and tidy things up. Well made clippers have a number of guide combs to clean up around your ears as well as cut and blend the back, sides and top of your hair. This gives you the opportunity to extend the life of you haircut.

Follow some of these tips, and take care of it now before summer gets in full swing and you start heading out to barbecues and other parties!

Time for Some Grooming!

Social gatherings are more intimate occasions. That’s true not just emotionally, but also physically. People stand close together, and aren’t super distracted by their phones or papers, and tend to notice more features on someone’s face. Including your own.

That makes this the perfect time of year to fix some common grooming mistakes. Don’t feel bad if you’re making any or all of these — just take steps to fix them! Most are needs that don’t develop until after puberty, so none of us really got a chance to build the good habits early in life. Play catch-up now by identifying and eliminating these common grooming mistakes!

There’s nothing wrong with a sweet ‘stache or a big ol’ beard, at least as long as your workplace allows them, but a messy one? You’ll want to avoid that so you can maintain that professionalism. Trim the edges of beards and mustaches into shape on a daily basis. You know how guys without beards look scruffy and scraggly if they skip shaving for more than a day? That’s happening to the edges of your beard, too!

You don’t need to do anything fancy on this one. Just go lightly over the edges of your facial hair with a trimmer and the appropriate guide comb, cutting everything back to a uniform length and making sure the outline (where the hair ends and naked skin begins) is nice and crisp. It’s the difference between “sexy lumberjack,” which is a fantasy, and “hobo” which is more realistic, but decidedly less alluring. You want to look like you’d be natural holding an axe, not a shiv made with a thrown out plastic fork.

Should you trim your stubble?  Yes, men who sport the stubble look need to know how to keep it in check. Contrary to popular belief, the stubble and five o’ clock shadow is now an appearance men can use! However, men who prefer this look must know how to maintain it.  To make stubble work, keep it trim. Just because you have stubble doesn’t mean you are off the hook for maintaining it. That’s what causes you to look sloppy. To avoid the look like you partied too hard the night before, well-kept stubble is a must.  Use a stubble guard or a shorter guide when trimming your stubble.

Now… about those eyebrows. Does this one sound really pathetically nit-picky to you? Think again, what is one of the first things someone notices about your face? Usually the eyes, right? What are right above them? Human beings use them to express a wide range of emotions, and people will take notice. That makes a couple minutes of at-home trimming one of the best time investments you’ll make this year. Eyebrow threading can do an even better job, but at the very least use some trimmers to tidy up the outline of each brow and make a clear separation above the bridge of your nose.

Remember how Bert of Bert and Ernie from Sesame Street always came across as the more fussy, easily flustered one? Yeah, part of that visual coding was his oversized, drawn-together eyebrows. Think about it.

There are more grooming mistakes and fixes coming soon!

Beard Life – Part 2

So did you become one of those people who accidentally messes up your lines? Has your beard gotten really itchy? Are you at your wits end with your beard???

If you do accidentally mess up your lines, don’t worry! There are a few ways to deal with this, the most obvious being start over. Who really wants to start over on their beard though?! So, if you do mess up, we now play the waiting game. You have what the pros call the all-in method, and the iterative method. Basically, both methods require you to let the beard hair grow back which will in turn allow you to re-trim to your desired style. You will want to give the new growth some time to grow out so you can visualize where you want the new cheek or neck line. With the all-in method, you’ll want to allow the new growth to go for at least a couple weeks. You may look a bit scraggly, but it’s all worth it! With the iterative method, you can let it go for a couple days, and then slowly shape as time goes on. It takes a bit longer to get the beard shaped how you want, but you look less rough during the process.

Don’t let itching deter you! If you experience itching, keep your skin clean by daily shampooing (with a gentle shampoo) and optionally using a conditioner. Your skin will eventually adjust to the new situation. Itching should be only a temporary phase. If you happen to need more relief, try applying some baby oil or moisturizing lotion to the areas that are itching. That should help to soothe your skin while you go through the transition. There are also beard oils and balms you can buy that help alleviate the itching by keeping the skin under your beard moisturized. Your beard will also look real slick and smooth, so that’s a bonus!

Don’t give up! Set a target date. For example, give yourself a minimum of six weeks’ growth before deciding to abandon your beard-growing effort. Commit to not shaving before that six weeks is up. When you’ve reached the six weeks date, then you can decide whether you want to continue with the beard or get rid of it.

Invest in a beard trimmer and learn how to use it. Usually you should shampoo your beard with the same shampoo you already use for your head. Some may prefer to wash their beards with soap instead. You could try out soap and shampoo to see which you like best. Pat your beard gently dry with a towel. Blow drying is not usually necessary and is probably not recommended anyway.

If you choose to get rid of your new beard, the easiest way to dispose of it is to use a beard trimmer or other hair clippers. Use the trimmer or clippers to trim away as much hair as possible. Follow that with a regular shave. Be extra careful cause your skin may or may not have become more sensitive due to the beard growing process. Make sure to follow safe shaving procedures and enjoy being back to your baby face!

Beard Life – Part 1

While growing a beard is extremely easy, many  give up their efforts in frustration by falling into the trap of common mistakes and abandoning their newly-started beards too quickly. Growing a beard requires a commitment. The experience can even be a test of character as well as a surprising process of self-discovery. Do you have what it takes? In this two-part article on beard growing, we will discuss the process in detail!

Why grow a beard? Logically, the question ought to be: Why NOT grow a beard? But shaving is the norm and letting the beard grow is the exception. So, it may require a bit of courage to take the decision to grow a beard. Once that decision is taken, it is easily reversed upon second thought. And another would-be beard disappears. When you see a man with a full-grown beard, you know he made the decision to be bearded and he had the determination to stick with it.

Whether or not you should grow a beard depends in large part on genetics. Beard growth is genetically determined and there is not much anyone can do other than to accept what they’ve been given. If you have developed enough facial hair to allow you to grow a beard, then you owe it to yourself to grow it out at least once during your lifetime — even if only as an experiment. You may be so pleased with the results, even unexpectedly so, that you decide to keep the beard permanently. With myself, I grew a beard out several years ago, and haven’t gone back to baby-face since!

Now, the decision to grow, and subsequently keep, your beard is yours. The only opinion that really matters is yours. So, go for it! If you like it, keep it. If not, then shave it off. At the very least you will have given it a try and you’ll know what it was like to grow your beard. Make a commitment to grow your beard and stick with it. This is most important!


Consider starting your beard while on vacation. You’ll be more relaxed about it while away from your job. Don’t be overly concerned about other people’s potential reactions to your new beard. If you have a good beard, most people will probably react favorably, possibly much more favorably than you would have ever anticipated. So relax and enjoy the experience!

When starting to let your beard grow, just stop shaving, completely. Do not shave at all for at least the first four weeks of growth. One of the most common errors is to attempt to start shaping or sculpting the beard too early in the process. WHY let your beard grow for four weeks before you start to shape it — even if you are just growing a goatee? If you don’t wait, you might cut off more than you really wanted. Also, you might not have thought about going for the striking effect of an oversized goatee. You can always trim it down to a smaller size later.

After four weeks, you can start sculpting your beard. Usually, you’ll want to define a “neck line” along the bottom of your beard around the neck. This is probably best done by a professional barber or stylist. The hard part may be finding one who has a lot of experience in beard styling.

Generally the “cheek line”, the upper limit of the beard on the cheeks, is best left natural. Some men butcher otherwise excellent beards by shaving the cheeks into strange shapes. Unless your beard appears to be starting just below your eyes, you probably are better off not shaving or sculpting the beard on your cheeks!

Stay tuned for part 2!




The Summer Beard

It’s hot, it’s humid, and you have enough hair on your face that someone thinks you have a small animal hanging out under your nose. They will ask questions like “isn’t that hot?” or “how can you have a full beard in the summer?” It isn’t easy, I’ll tell you that. For a long time, beards were definitely a seasonal thing, being grown out fully in the winter months to protect the face from the harsh cold of winter. Beards have become a year-round staple now, so what do you do when you want to keep it during the hottest months of the year?

First and foremost, you’ll want to protect your beard from the sun’s rays, especially because science is beginning to show a beard during the summer can offer some protecting for the skin underneath! Yep, you heard that right. Beards are a natural UV ray blocker! You’ll want to make sure it is as healthy as can be, and the sun can dry out your beard hair, making it weak. You may want to invest in a leave-in sunscreen spray for protection. Sunscreen for your sunscreen, ya dig?

Now, you may want to consider slimming it down for summer. No, I don’t mean your body I mean your beard! I know this tip may get some boos from the owners and lovers of beards, but sometimes it is just way too hot out to have so much fuzz on the face. Take an electric shaver with a guard, and cut it down to a desired length. You’ll feel refreshed and almost lighter, to be honest. Just don’t mess up so you don’t have to start all over again!

You’ll want to also try and keep your beard soft throughout the summer months. Your beard hair tends to be a lot rougher than the rest of the hair on your body, and this leads to it feeling uncomfortable. The dreaded beard itch, if you know what I am talking about. Your skin can sometimes flare-up underneath all that hair if it is left alone and you aren’t using the right products. This is especially bad during summer, since your skin has already been bombarded by the sun and water from either the beach or your local pool. You’ll want to get a beard conditioner and run it through before you go to bed, this will help bring back that softness and even a nice shine. You may want to also grab a skin moisturizer and use it along the beard line, skin can get irritated easily in this area. Last but not least, use a beard oil after your morning face wash, keeps your beard frizz-less throughout your day.

When you sweat, your beard hair can trap all those minerals that come out of your pores and dry out your skin rapidly. This can also happen from salt water and chlorine in pools when you do your swimming during those super hot days. You’re going to want to make sure you scrub your beard out well, basically exfoliate the skin underneath. It’s a little difficult to master, but by giving the skin underneath your beard hair a good scrub, and getting rid of all that dead skin, you will feel great, and avoid the itchy beard again. Trust me, it’s something you’ll want to do.

I keep a beard year-round, and have always looked for ways to keep my beard looking healthy during those really hot months. These are some of my favorite tips, and hopefully you can enjoy a year-long beard as well!

Summer Hair

It’s getting close to summer, and time to start thinking about how you’re going to take care of your hair. You know the weather is about to get warm, and you’re going to be outdoors a lot more, so what is your game plan? Your hair and scalp are both very prone to being damaged by the sun, so the challenge is to protect it. I’ve got a few tips here on how to care for and protect your hair and scalp during the summer.

A fresh cut never hurt anyone, especially right around the start of summer. You’ll keep cooler by having less hair trapping the heat on your scalp and back of your neck. You can always do a short buzz cut, but I know some people like to keep it a bit longer, so my advice here is to just make sure it’s off your neck, letting it breathe. Now, if you do want to go the short route, I wouldn’t say that you should shave your head completely. Having hair on top of your scalp does protect it from sunburn, which can cause all sorts of trouble for your hair in general. Scalp sunburns can lead to itching, dandruff, and increased hair fall out.

Speaking of your scalp, you’ll want to protect that as much as you can from sunburn. Though it is less likely to get burned if you have hair on top of your head, you can still get sunburned. Especially on the top of your head, or if you have thin hair. Your scalp is also very prone to skin cancer, so you really want to protect it. Use a little bit of sunscreen, and massage it in to your scalp. You can even find styling products that have an SPF rating. If you can’t use sunscreen or can’t find one, a hat is also a very good choice for sun protection.

Oh wait, you already got sunburn on your scalp? Oops, but not to worry! Luckily, there are ways to treat a scalp burn. You want to make sure that you treat your scalp very gently, use a soft brush to prevent scratching and causing a delay in the healing process. Make sure to avoid any styling products that have alcohol in them, this can cause your scalp to dry out and be a real pain for you. Do not pick or scratch at it if it starts to peel, either! This can lead to an infection, and then you will really be wishing you remembered that sunscreen.

So, your scalp is recovered, and now you want to go to the pool. You’re going to want to protect your hair from that good old chemical, chlorine. That stuff can damage your hair, leaving it feeling dry and looking it, too. You’ll want to make sure not to wash your hair before going to the pool, that way your hair retains its natural oils to protect it. When you go to the pool, a pool cap is your safest option to protect your hair from chlorine, but if you don’t want to wear one, just make sure to wash your hair when you get home.

Finally, during the summer, your hair traps in the sweat and dust from outside against your scalp. You’ll want to shampoo often to keep it clean, but do not shampoo daily. That can strip your hair of essential oils that keep it healthy.

The summer is a great time to go outside and enjoy yourself, but make sure to take care of your hair and scalp, that way you can have healthy summer hair!

So You Graduated Barber School… Now What?

The first thing you’re going to look in to doing is finding a chair in a nearby barbershop or salon. This will help get your feet wet, and so you can see the business from the inside. Now, as time goes on, you may start thinking about starting your own business. Your entrepreneurial spirit burns to have a place of your own, and you believe the time is coming to become the owner of a barbershop.

What is the path to becoming a business owner in the barbering industry?

You’re going to want to begin formulating a plan, but you’re going to want to start by talking with your clients that sit in your current chair. These folks will be your first steps! Ask them about what could be changed, or what they really enjoy about the place you are currently working. Make sure to take in to account your current and/or previous employers did for their clients, too.

Next thing you are going to want to do is check out your state’s licensing requirements. With the state of Arkansas, a lot of these requirements are met when attending a barber school. From taking the classes, to working an apprenticeship, these can be done while attending a barbering college.

Following that, the next steps you’ll want to take are building a business plan and location, location, location. Building the business plan is fairly straightforward; just determine the operating costs and the start-up costs. Marketing, licensing, leasing, etc. As for finding a location, the choice is up to you! Make sure to be mindful of your local competition and their relation to where you decide is the perfect spot for your business. You can go the route of building from scratch if you choose, but the easier route would be to find an empty spot to lease. This cuts out the need to go to a zoning board or get any sort of building permits.

Before getting your salon ready for inspection, look in to hiring a lawyer to review the lease agreements with, making sure the owner of the building and you are aware of who is responsible for what. Bringing on an accountant is also sound advice, that way to help with the tax law when it comes to your employees.

Now, to begin prepping for the inspection you will want to have plenty of equipment and supplies on hand. Check all public safety, sanitation, and licensing requirements, and contact the local Health Department to schedule an inspection. Your State Board may require you to have an examination performed by them as well. Check on that.

So you passed, great job!

Now it is time to hire some licensed barbers for you shop and fill those chairs! Make sure they are well groomed, and look the part, a dress code is a good way to maintain the professional image you want to put off. While discussions between employees are great, make sure to encourage your hair stylists to leave the gossip at the door.

After all is said and done, you’ve got your own business up and running. Hold yourself a grand opening, and see about putting a press release out in the local paper to get buzz about your business. Do NOT forget about your online presence. Social media is a huge drive now a days for business, so a Facebook or Twitter would be great for your business, along with a user-friendly website.

Good luck out there!

Want to know more about how to get started? Check out more articles on that here!

Gotta Keep That Hair Strong

Hair’s dead, baby, hair’s dead.  However, that does not mean we should not take care of the stuff that covers our body and scalp. If you are like me, having heavy and oily hair can be extremely bothersome, but there are ways to take care of your hair and scalp that help you have healthy, clean looking hair!

There is a general routine that people with any hair type can use, and it’s as follows:

  1. Aside from soaking your hair, you’re not going to want to use a ton of shampoo. Only a quarter size amount will really be needed. The power of lathering, man.
  2. Massage the shampoo in to your scalp, which is really what the goal of washing your hair is for. Keeping the scalp clean and healthy leads to healthier hair.
  3. Rinse all of the shampoo, and conditioner if you use it, out. Make sure you get it all.
  4. Gently dry your hair with a towel, don’t go crazy as this can actually damage your hair, believe it or not.
  5. Use a wide-tooth comb to brush your hair, and do it carefully. You don’t want to brush so hard that you bring chunks of hair with it!
  6. When you can, let it air dry!

If you are also like me, you may have a really dry scalp or a skin condition. I have scalp psoriasis, which makes my scalp very itchy and causes flakes, otherwise known as dandruff. Sometimes, dandruff can be cause by something as simple as leaving too much shampoo on the scalp. Other times, it’s more of a skin condition. If you suspect you have a skin condition, check with your doctor or dermatologist and see if they can prescribe you a special treatment shampoo.

Going back to the oily hair conundrum for a moment, having natural oils in your hair is actually great, however, sometimes we produce too much. When that happens, you hair can look less than stellar after just a single day of not washing it. This leads in to the question a lot of people ask: how often should I wash my hair? I would love to tell you an exact answer, but it’s a big, fat DEPENDS. With super oily hair, you’ll want to wash it more often, especially if it is straight since straight hair tends to get oily quick. For me, I have to wash my hair every day or else it gets really oily and it looks rough. People who have curly hair or thick hair can sometimes have an issue with the hair looking too dry or frizzy, conditioner can help this issue. It adds essential oils to the hair, not only nourishing it, but keeping it from becoming a poof ball.

Now, you’re going to want to protect your hair. There are tons of things that can cause damage and make it too dry or break easily. Chemicals are a large cause of damaged hair, whether it is chemicals from a pool, or the products you use to style your hair. Hair treatments like coloring, straightening and curling can also cause damage. Wearing a hat when outside to prevent sun damage is also a nice little tip to consider.

Keeping your hair healthy and strong is not hard, but does require the maintenance, but as long as you follow some of these tips, your hair should be just fine!

Read more on hair care for men here!

Get that Barbershop Quality Shave, without the Barbershop

Going to a barbershop and getting your beard styled is an amazing experience, but sometimes you either don’t have the money or you want to get that same kind of experience at home. Nothing is better than shaving in your own bathroom, keeps you comfortable and in your own space. So, how would you like to be able to give yourself that same great quality shave?

The first, and most important step, preparation. A lot of people like to overlook the prep of the shaving process, even though this is a crucial part! If you prep yourself correctly, your skin will be cleansed, pores opened, and skin soft. If you want a smooth shave, make sure to do it after or at the tail end of a hot shower. This softens the beard and opens pores, but if you don’t have time to shower, a hot towel and some water can be used for the same effect. Make sure to have a high quality shave cream, one that is glycerin based, and DO NOT go for products with menthol. It will close your pores and make the beard hair stiff. If you’re like me and have sensitive skin, you may want to use an oil that can be applied pre-shave that will soften your beard and prevent razor burn. Use a badger shaving brush to apply the shaving cream, doing it in a circular motion. It will help create a good lather, and even exfoliate your skin!

The next step is the main show, the crucial shave! If you prepped correctly, your beard hair and skin will be properly lubricated. Razor burn and ingrown hairs can come as the result of poor lubrication and a less-than-ready blade. A sharp blade is just as important; it will make the experience a quick, close, and comfortable shave. With your free hand, pull the area of the skin that you are about to shave tight and gently glide the razor over the area. Do not apply pressure, and rinse the blade often of the hair and shaving cream mixture. Also make sure to shave with the grain, not against it, to avoid razor burn or ingrown hairs. If you accidentally cut yourself, make sure to put pressure to the area to stop the bleeding, and clean it thoroughly.

The final step of getting that great shave is closing up your pores and rinsing your face with some cool water. When drying your face, gently pat with a soft cloth, and you can use a nice aftershave balm as well. I would advise against using any products that have alcohol in them, this could dry out your skin. Using a good aftershave will help heal and moisturize the skin.

Shaving is not magic and you don’t need to be a pro to get that amazing shave. You can give yourself a great shave at home if you follow the steps above, and you’ll look fresh every time you do it. Now get out there and become a shaving master!

Get more tips on beard and hair care here!